The Power of Words

Don't you get it? People react to problems differently and sometimes this difference is what becomes a problem to yet another person. What a vicious cycle it is. There are some things we can do though.  Seven little steps to diminish the pain, even if only a little. Seven little things we can learn in order to make the problem stop with us and not being just another channel for the negativity to spread. Learn to not care for then the problem got no power to hurt you.  Learn to not let your anger vibrates through the air making the situation worse for others. Just keep it to yourself. Keep your mouth shut and maybe you can pray. Learn to stop making expectations because in the end the one thing that people care most is their own benefit. So just don't be too naive by hoping that someone out there will put your interest first. Learn to not make everything about you. Sometimes the world doesn't revolve around you and you've got to grow up. Learn to let go. When ...

"when you get caught in the middle of the rain, you can't blame the clouds for not being able to hold the weight of it all, you can't blame the sun for being too hot it vaporises too much water, you can't blame anyone and anything but yourself. when you are who you are today, you can't blame your parents for choosing you you can't blame the society for what it pushed you to be you can't blame anyone and anything but yourself because life is not a blaming game." Have you ever had that friends of yours who are just beyond nice? Up to the point you sometimes wonder whether they are nice or plainly stupid. Because the line between the two is just super vague and thin, don't you think? Then, there are people in that same circle of yours that always take advantage of the kindness of a friend - ignoring the fact whether they do it purposely with malice or not. Have you ever had that friends of yours who get everything a person can hope fo...