"when you get caught in the middle of the rain,
you can't blame the clouds for not being able to hold the weight of it all,
you can't blame the sun for being too hot it vaporises too much water,
you can't blame anyone and anything but yourself.
when you are who you are today,
you can't blame your parents for choosing you
you can't blame the society for what it pushed you to be
you can't blame anyone and anything but yourself
because life is not a blaming game."
Have you ever had that friends of yours who are just beyond nice?
Up to the point you sometimes wonder whether they are nice or plainly stupid.
Because the line between the two is just super vague and thin, don't you think?
Then, there are people in that same circle of yours that always take advantage of the kindness of a friend - ignoring the fact whether they do it purposely with malice or not.
Have you ever had that friends of yours who get everything a person can hope for all too easily?
They get good marks without studying. Either they are born smart or they play dirty.
They use their pretty faces to their advantages - not that its a wrong thing to do.
They are the people that guys and girls gossip about on the lunch table.
Then there are people, who fight their ass off to get what they have but luck and the whole universe is just against them.
Have you ever had that friend that are simply invisible?
They are not the best and not the worst. They are mediocre.
They are never loud in class but at times they get all noisy in their social media.
They don't speak up, they seems to never argue, and they just accept all things as it is.
And then there are people who can't stand when the shine is not on them, doing all things to seek the attention and never shut up when things do not go as they plan it would.
Have you ever had that friend that you worry will go to the wrong directions some day?
They have this look in their eyes as if they are done with this world and all its shit while laughing in the middle of a crowd.
They come in every morning without any purpose as if all is lost.
They don't fight, they don't feel, and they do whatever they feel like doing.
And then there are people who worry for their friends just because they are that kind of person.
Have you ever had that friends of yours that always work twice as hard as everyone else?
Sometimes not really resulting in twice as better yet they do it anyway.
They are the people that your circles depend on to do the extra miles making sure everything is well.
They are the ones you hate for being idealistic, perfectionist, and trying to lead you to be better at times.
And then there are people who won't stop complaining about their life and talk bad things about their friends, trying to make themselves a bit better about themselves by bringing everybody down together with their dignity.
Have you ever wonder what drives a friend to be who they are?
Is it their past? Their parents? Their crushed dreams? or perhaps their God?
What drives you to be you?
Which friends are you?
Which friends do you choose to be from now on?
Whatever you choose to be - good or bad - it isn't anyone's decision but yours
you can't blame the clouds for not being able to hold the weight of it all,
you can't blame the sun for being too hot it vaporises too much water,
you can't blame anyone and anything but yourself.
when you are who you are today,
you can't blame your parents for choosing you
you can't blame the society for what it pushed you to be
you can't blame anyone and anything but yourself
because life is not a blaming game."
Have you ever had that friends of yours who are just beyond nice?
Up to the point you sometimes wonder whether they are nice or plainly stupid.
Because the line between the two is just super vague and thin, don't you think?
Then, there are people in that same circle of yours that always take advantage of the kindness of a friend - ignoring the fact whether they do it purposely with malice or not.
Have you ever had that friends of yours who get everything a person can hope for all too easily?
They get good marks without studying. Either they are born smart or they play dirty.
They use their pretty faces to their advantages - not that its a wrong thing to do.
They are the people that guys and girls gossip about on the lunch table.
Then there are people, who fight their ass off to get what they have but luck and the whole universe is just against them.
Have you ever had that friend that are simply invisible?
They are not the best and not the worst. They are mediocre.
They are never loud in class but at times they get all noisy in their social media.
They don't speak up, they seems to never argue, and they just accept all things as it is.
And then there are people who can't stand when the shine is not on them, doing all things to seek the attention and never shut up when things do not go as they plan it would.
Have you ever had that friend that you worry will go to the wrong directions some day?
They have this look in their eyes as if they are done with this world and all its shit while laughing in the middle of a crowd.
They come in every morning without any purpose as if all is lost.
They don't fight, they don't feel, and they do whatever they feel like doing.
And then there are people who worry for their friends just because they are that kind of person.
Have you ever had that friends of yours that always work twice as hard as everyone else?
Sometimes not really resulting in twice as better yet they do it anyway.
They are the people that your circles depend on to do the extra miles making sure everything is well.
They are the ones you hate for being idealistic, perfectionist, and trying to lead you to be better at times.
And then there are people who won't stop complaining about their life and talk bad things about their friends, trying to make themselves a bit better about themselves by bringing everybody down together with their dignity.
Have you ever wonder what drives a friend to be who they are?
Is it their past? Their parents? Their crushed dreams? or perhaps their God?
What drives you to be you?
Which friends are you?
Which friends do you choose to be from now on?
Whatever you choose to be - good or bad - it isn't anyone's decision but yours
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