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A Kind Reminder


Hey there,
this post is dedicated to all of you who needs a kind reminder that it is okay not to be fine sometimes.
I too was once needing this reminder and it comes through one of my favourite tv series so I am sharing this with you.
It is also meant for you who needs to know right now that all of us makes mistakes and that too is okay.
Mistakes are there as a part of our life to teach us a lesson.
Mistakes too are what eventually makes us humans.
So its okay, your life is not over just because of one stupid mistake you made.
We've all been there, tho none the exact same.

Well darling, if you are not fine by the time you read this post, or that if you are currently regretting some of your presumably wrong decisions, I just want to say that you don't get to give up.
Keep fighting, will you?
Because we know that eventually you'll be fine again.
Remember those moments when you felt truly happy?
You'll get there sooner or later.

Yeah I know that for some people, waiting for the clock to turn and the night time to come so that you'll get an excuse to quit the world and sleep is an everyday's struggle.
Not to mention it all will just go back to another morning, another battle.
Believe me I know, but you too will be okay.
It's important for you to know that you and you alone got the power to decide to fight through another day until it gets better.

Don't worry too much tho, just do it over and over again.
Do it even when you don't feel like doing it.
Again and again.
Each time telling yourself one more time.
Eventually, that too will become as natural as breathing.

And if this post is not directly for you but you know someone who might need to hear this right now, do me a favour, would you?
Contact them, ask them how they're doing, be there for them.
Everyone needs someone and you might be the only one available right now for them.
One post on a friend's instagram lately said this and it really tickles my heart;
"When God compels you to check on someone, do it immediately. You never know what kind of impact it could have on the person"
-Cornelius Lindsey

So yeah, in the end people are what matters. Last thing that I'd like you to be reminded of for now is that the next time people asked you what you're doing out of nowhere,
make it a habit not to say you're busy and answer instead by asking what they need or if they're okay in your own way.




"No test or temptation that comes your way is beyond the course of what others have had to face. All you need to remember is that God will never let you down; he’ll never let you be pushed past your limit; he’ll always be there to help you come through it."
1 Corinthians 10:13 (msg)

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