Not Alone.

Hey there,
how's your day going?
is everything all right these days?
how are you?
are you, okay?

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This one is written to all of you out there, needing someone to hear you out.
As I was on a short weekend getaway with my best friend last weekend (which you can read about in a blogpost written by her HERE), we were blessed to be able to savour the serenity of nature without the hustle of other tourists. It was just us and the waterfall. Just the two of us and the uncertainty of what's laying in front of the dark tunnel.

There and only then, we both finally understood the meaning behind the sentence of humans are a social creature. We all need someone. Things are always better when you have someone to share it with. It doesn't matter whether you are an extrovert or an introvert, we all enjoy life by sharing it with other people.

Oh yes, I am very much aware with the fact that all problems in life comes because of the existence of other people. But, thinking about it, I realised that life has no meaning at all if it's only me that exist in this world.

When we are happy, we need - more than just want - to share it with someone
When we achieved something, we need people to acknowledge that
When we are facing difficult times, we need other people's shoulder to cry on and ears to listen
When we are busy, we need other people to look out for us
When we are enjoying our free time, we need other people to think about
When we love, we love other people.
This intertwined common need is what I believe made us human.

Back to you needing someone to hear you out,
There are people around you, those who care deeply about you.
They are indeed not perfect, they may have disappoint you at a time, but they are still there.
It is likely that they've tried to reach out to you, yet you shut down on them.
It is likely that they've been waiting for you to talk to them.
It is likely that just if you want to try, you'll find them welcoming you open heartedly.

This post just want to remind you that you are not alone.
If you're having a bad day, talk to someone.
If you're facing some problems, reach out to people, talk about it.
You can't keep it all alone inside. That way, you're just creating a ticking bomb.
I believe that our creator created many of us and not just one of us or even few of us for this very purpose.

So hey,
it might be just a bad day and not a bad life, right?
cheer up, smile on, keep your head held high, start telling your story, someone is bound to willingly listen.

Promise yourself something?
If it gets hard, talk to the right people, find someone you trust and start with them.
Because once you start telling your story, even not receiving any solid solutions, you will definitely feel better.